couples immersions

dear beloveds,

you are invited to meet yourself and each other in a place of depth and beauty.

As the expression of beauty, wonder and divinity that you are.

You are invited to come home,

Together.

Deep and delicious bespoke ceremonial experiences for
couples, partners and beloveds.

Together we create a container for timelessness.

Whether you’re casual lovers or have been together for years,
I welcome you into a ritualistic space
of love & intimacy.

offerings for couples

tantric massage

Devotional experiences of full Tantric massage in a sacred and ceremonial space. Opportunities to fully receive, learn about the Tantric arts or explore couples coaching and support.

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beloveds deep dive

Immersive experiences for you to explore new realms of your intimacy and connection. Bespoke encounters that include Tantric massage, rituals and ceremonies, guided practices, meditations and demonstrations.

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events/retreats

Immersive experiences, rituals and ceremonies for partners, couples and beloveds. Currently based in London.

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What is Tantric Massage?

broadly the word tantra means to weave.

unlike other spiritual traditions which are transcendental (trying to get somewhere else) Tantra teaches of embodied spirituality.

where ‘God’ is not outside of us.

tantra invites us to weave our personal, everyday lived experiences with something beautiful, magical and mystical.

we are not separate.

We are inherently divine.

Tantric massage is an opportunity to experience yourself as this expression of divinity.

To blend sexuality and spirituality.

To let go of any expectations or ideas about who you are, how you look, how you could be a better lover, better parent, better person.

Tantric massage is a way to invite the sacred into our everyday lives. 

FOR COUPLES,

Tantric experiences of sexuality and intimacy support you to meet yourself and your pleasure alone and together.

You are invited to experience yourself as pleasure-filled and ecstatic.

together we create a container for timelessness,

a space of merging. 

Where heaven and earth meet.

Where your bodies entangle and your spirits dance together.

Benefits of Tantric Massage for couples:

  • Deeper connection to self and others

  • Expand and maintain passion, arousal and eros in your connections

  • Expand your capacity for pleasure and sensation through slowing down and increased somatic awareness (connection to body)

  • Expand your shared definition of intimacy (creative ways to connect)

  • Develop communication - asking for what you want, desires, fears and boundaries 

  • Learn about intuitive touch - how to feel what you and your partner desires 

  • Enhance presence in love-making and throughout your life

  • See beyond your daily routines and expectations to the purpose and core meaning behind your relationship

  • Learn to appreciate sex as a sacred practice - including prioritising a wide-range of intimacy and reducing ‘goal orientated’ sex

  • Healing for shame or stigma around desires, patterns and habits such as addiction to dopamine, porn/vibrators

  • Explore energetic polarities and archetypes ie how your women opens, how your man holds presence, the transition between maiden (pre birth), mother  and crone (post menopause)

  • Intimacy post birth and beyond (including support for healing, parenthood and life transitions)

  • Connecting after long periods of separation or sexual disconnection

  • Support to take your learnings home for sustained change and deepening.

experiences

One receive, One witness

Immersive experiences for one person to receive and one person to witness.

Receive with your beloved holding deep presence and love. Witness your beloved in pleasure, rest and receiving.

Couples massage can be a deeply healing, erotic and educational experience for both. Sessions can focus on the masculine or feminine, include yoni or lingham massage and are tailored to your unique needs and desires.

Dakini Immersion (4 hands)

Immersive experiences for one or both of you to receive a 4 hands tantric massage.

Enjoy an immersive experience of both receiving from two Dakinis versed in the sacred arts of sacred sexual exploration and healing.

With 4 hands at work, you both are invited into deep connection to self and surrender to the experience. We move with presence and trust, inviting you both to experience depth, pleasure and merging in the way that works for you.

Shared Receptivity

Immersive experiences of receiving together.

Receive a Tantric massage together as an exploration of sovereignty and deep togetherness. Sessions are co-created together including desires, intentions and boundaries.

Each person is invited to feel their own body, their pleasure, needs and desire and experience a sense of merging of worlds as you share and receive touch from myself and one-another (if desired).

Dive Deeper

1- or 2- day immersive experiences of ceremonial beauty.

A sacred haven away from to-do lists, jobs, expectations and the busyness of life. I welcome you into a state of timelessness.

Immersions include full Tantric massage sessions and a range of experimental practices (including Breathwork, meditation, energetic clearing and connection exercises), bespoke coaching and mentorship.

All sessions (besides the Deep Dive) range from 2-4 hours, and include introductory connection, discussion of desires, fears and boundaries, time to integrate and de-brief at the end.

All experiences can be adapted to couples and beloveds of any configuration.

Tantric massage blends the concept of gender, dissolving expectations or ideas about our outer form.

Reach out to explore the experience you are seeking. You are welcome to follow this guideline or we can discuss other options for what you would like to create together.

beloveds deep dive

Tantric massage, coaching and support for couples

I offer immersive couples experiences for you to explore new realms of your intimacy and connection.

I welcome you into a place of ceremonial beauty and a sacred haven away from to do lists, jobs, expectations and the busyness of life.

Together we drop into a state of timelessness.

Immersions include full Tantric massage therapy sessions and a wide-range of experiential practices (including meditation, breathwork, energetic clearing and connection exercises), Tantric teachings and bespoke coaching and support. 

  • The Tantric path as a way of living and loving

  • Exploring the relationship as a living, breathing being (including how to listen to the being)

  • Relational fluidity to support energetic polarity, understanding and cohesion:

    • The masculine: purpose, power, containment and will

    • The feminine: receptivity, creativity, chaos and beauty

    • The masculine in women (holding presence, learning containment, holding your man)

    • The feminine in men (slowness, softness and receptivity for men)

  • Exploring archetypes as exploration of self and other eg King and Queen, Lover, Creator

  • Filling our own cup:

    • Self regulation and co-regulation

    • Emotional release practices 

    • Self pleasure and being our own lover

    • Personal healing, self-care and healthy boundaries 

    • Nervous system support and integration 

  • Communication:

    • How to really ask for what we want: needs and desires

    • Clear, honest and heart-centred communication

  • Guided practices, including demonstrations from me (within personal boundaries)

  • Practical skills: taking an expansive experience into the everyday, cultivating the erotic current everyday

AREAS FOR EXPLORATION INCLUDE:

let’s connect

Please contact me to discuss your desires and intentions.

Private weekend immersive experiences available in Europe. I am available to travel and host private retreats in Sicily.